Do This... Not That (All in love)
My Dad had a very particular way of doing things. I must have inherited it from him because my Mom always told me I was very particular...in those exact words. It's been two years since my Dad's passing, and in honor of him, I write this today. He always showed me the correct way to do things: "do it this way Jam Jam." I've dealt with sudden, unexpected loss and anticipatory loss, and I'm still working through the physical, emotional, and spiritual aspects of it all, but there are a few things I've learned. As we will all experience grief, I've committed myself to do some things differently in support of others who might be on a grief journey, knowing that it all has its particular DNA. You can do with this information what you will, but I am praying that one thing might help you help others dealing with immense loss. 1. Don't tell your grieving loved one what their person might have said to them. "Your Mom would have told you..." We hav...